Request a demo
Back to Blog

How to Help Leaders Play Up Their Unique Superpowers

September 2, 2019 - 11 min read


Jump to section

Whole Person Leadership

Uncovering a Unique Leadership Style

The last decade has ushered in a new age of leadership rooted in authenticity, trust, and open communication. Individuals at all levels of organizations are now looking for a meaningful, motivating work experience. Millennials, especially, want to be led, not managed. And many of them are stepping into new leadership roles for the first time, often without much preparation.

Most leadership development efforts fall flat when organizations try to impose a prescriptive, one-size-fits-all plan rising leaders need to follow, when what they really need is a compass so they can chart their own path.

What they really need is a compass so they can chart their own path. Click To Tweet

When organizations don’t invest in helping their High Potential employees (HiPos) discover an authentic leadership style that leverages their natural strengths, values, and internal resources, they risk top talent leaving. Or worse, High Potential individuals may hold back because they feel out of place, like an impostor when they don’t fit the leadership mold.

By contrast, when you focus on what rising leaders are naturally good at, it brings out their best and gives them deeper motivation to succeed. This more personalized leadership development approach fosters intrinsic drive that translates into better business results and retention.

Here’s how your organization can take an active interest in rising leaders’ potential in a way that appreciates their unique qualities and helps bring them to the forefront so they can perform at their best.

Whole Person Leadership

Most traditional leadership development approaches miss key skills and behaviors leaders need to continuously learn.

In her TED talk, leadership expert Roselinde Torres says that “most leadership development programs are based on success models for a world that was, not a world that is or that is coming.” She points out that traditional leadership measures may actually stunt growth because they provide a limited, one-dimensional view of an individual’s ability to lead. This competency-based approach, she explains, is incomplete and insufficient for what’s required of 21st century leadership in a fast-changing, competitive world.

Unfortunately, most traditional leadership development approaches miss key skills and behaviors leaders need to continuously learn, be flexible in the face of rapid change, sustain focus, and to take care of themselves so that they can be there for others.

There’s no single leadership style that fits every individual. Click To Tweet

There’s also no single leadership style that fits every individual. Every employee brings a rich, diverse set of experiences, values, and qualities to the table. Leaders today must be adaptable to changing situations. Instead of forcing others to think like they do, they must foster collaboration, inclusivity, and diverse opinions in order to solve complex problems. Most importantly, they have to motivate through the creation of an inspiring, compelling vision of the future.

Whole Person leadership, takes into account the psychological resources and behaviors that help great leaders excel, including agility, team-building, and coaching. When you contextualize and apply a person’s individual strengths, values, and qualities to the environment, you arrive at an authentic leadership style that not only brings out their best but also achieves results.

Here are four steps to helping top performers identify a signature style that’s authentic to them as whole people, and to create a plan to put it into action today.

Uncovering a Unique Leadership Style

1. Encourage self-awareness

Great leaders understand people, most importantly, themselves. They know and express their values.

Cultivating a leadership style requires a willingness to engage in deep, courageous self-reflection, perhaps with the assistance of a coach. This emotional intelligence helps leaders shape and control their reactions to events — and act more effectively in the process.

Help rising leaders get in touch with their strengths and personal values with questions like:

  • What aspects of you work have you found most meaningful?
  • When have you felt most inspired?
  • In what types of situations do you easily get into the zone, or psychological flow?
  • How are you acting in accordance with your values?
  • What helps you cope with setbacks?

Also prompt them to take into consideration other leaders they look up to or aspire to be like. What is that they admire about them? Encourage them to think about what aspects of their behavior they can model or “try on.”

These questions will help your rising leaders put into words the unique blend of distinctive qualities that will supercharge their impact, effectiveness, and productivity.

2. Emphasize the importance of feedback

As valuable as looking inward can be be, self-reflection isn’t enough. Great leaders are proactive about getting outside perspective and feedback in order to achieve results.

Encourage your company’s rising leaders to have open conversations with their teams. This will unearth opportunities for them to apply their unique skillset to influence and drive results. There’s also no better way to establish trust and rapport than nurturing relationships.

Read:How to Empower Your Team Through Feedback

My advice for those involved in developing leaders is to have a “styles” conversation with their team members. In this conversation their goal should be to understand each team member’s priorities (What are they working on? What are their goals?), motivations (What’s their “why”?), and even their preferred method of communication (frequency, format, etc).Successful leaders strive to leverage the capacity of others, so these conversations illuminate ways they can do so — whether by offering resources, introductions, or other instrumental support.

Effective leadership is adaptive and responsive to the context, so the business situation must be taken into account. For instance, a startup may need a leader who excels at taking risks and pivoting quickly, whereas a well-established corporation may be looking for a leader who can inspire and re-energize a team. Give rising leaders the data they need to understand the organizational context so that they can match their leadership behaviors to what’s needed the most.

3. Write a manual that’s unique to the individual

The ability to articulate a compelling vision is critical to forward-thinking leadership. Rising leaders should have opportunities to practice and observe which elements of their narrative spark a light in those around them.

Combining insights gathered from their self-reflection and feedback from their team, leaders can create their own “user manual” to communicate their vision. This practice is becoming increasingly popular among top CEOs because it’s a succinct way to capture and communicate a unique leadership style on a broad scale and invite others into the process.

Abby Falik, Founder and CEO Global Citizen Year, wrote of her manual:

I’m a strong believer that leadership is a practice, not a position. My User Manual is one of the ways I practice leading out loud. It’s a living document that describes my innate wiring and my growing edge, while putting it out to the world that I know I am – and aim to always be — a work-in-progress.

Transparency into your working style not only encourages a sense of psychological safety, but shortens the learning curve, so you and your teammates can collaborate more effectively. Modeling candidness helps everyone embrace their human side at work, creating an inclusive environment where people can thrive.

4. Focus on strengths

Continue to nurture rising leaders in developing their style by encouraging them to be themselves, every day. Focusing on areas where leaders can play up their unique superpowers.

Most great leaders aren't good at everything. Click To Tweet

Most great leaders aren’t good at everything, so work with them to identify the skills, competencies, and capabilities that are the most highly relevant to the job. As long as their weaknesses are not handicapping their performance or damaging morale, leaders are better off focusing energy on amplifying their strengths instead.

At the end of the day, leaders are human, too, so embrace that they will make mistakes. There will be bumps in the road. When this happens, emphasize the learning opportunity they have to grow from and reflect upon to figure out action steps for future challenges.

Self-reflection lies at the heart of creating a leadership style that’s not only effective, but will help rising leaders reach their potential. Prescriptive models are a place to start, but it’s essential to encourage leaders to seek feedback, build relationships, and continually iterate on their strengths as well.

Remember: outstanding leaders are seldom born that way. They learn these capabilities during their career. Focus on giving your rising leaders opportunities to shine and your organization will always be a step ahead the rest. 



Published September 2, 2019

Read Next

Leadership & Management
10 min read | September 2, 2019

How to build a high performance team, according to Patty McCord

Patty McCord, a workplace innovator, culture and leadership consultant, and former Chief Talent Officer at Netflix, recently shared her insights on the future of work at... Read More
10 min read | December 14, 2021

The future of work: How the pandemic changed the picture

The future of work was changing long before the pandemic. Learn what to expect from the evolution of the workforce and how to prepare for the new normal. Read More
Leadership & Management
8 min read | September 2, 2019

Up your game: a new model for leadership

In this blog, I define a new model for developing leaders in the workplace—and how this approach leads to a more productive and effective organization. Read More
Leadership & Management
12 min read | November 8, 2021

The key mindsets sales leaders need to unlock success: Q&A with Brad McCracken, Global VP of Sales at BetterUp

Global sales leader Brad McCracken on the mindsets and behaviors sales leaders need to help their teams succeed at every stage and why coaching makes a difference. Read More
Employee Experience
5 min read | September 2, 2019

The path to individual transformation in the workplace: part two

The opportunity to practice new complex skills in today’s workplace is essential to employee growth. But many learning and development programs stop short of offering... Read More
Professional Development
11 min read | September 2, 2019

How to make decisions like a multi-billion dollar corporation

Our teams make decisions all day long — sometimes as individuals, sometimes as small groups, sometimes as a unit. These decisions range from the truly mundane — what to order... Read More
Professional Development
3 min read | September 2, 2019

Why We Need to Reframe Potential into Readiness

For years, we’ve been investing in employees who show “potential.” We separate out those who show potential from those who don’t, and then route hundreds of thousands — if... Read More
4 min read | September 2, 2019

Reflections on shift: cracking the code to people transformation in the workplace, and beyond

Recently we had the good fortune to bring together world-renowned psychologists, academics, thought leaders, and HR practitioners from some of the largest global... Read More
Employee Experience
15 min read | September 2, 2019

Are parents happier (at work)?

Becoming a parent signifies the end of many things: an uninterrupted night’s sleep, the ability to to take a night off at a moment’s notice, and perhaps, your fancy glass... Read More

Stay connected with BetterUp

Get our newsletter, event invites, plus product insights and research.